Meaning of: Are my feelings safe?

If i ask are my feelings safe? (which I only would ask if you contact me lol - not if I contacted you -  I get that's crazy lol) you can answer "Yes" or "No" - thank you, so much for helping me manage my happiness, it means a lot to me, if I can do anything to help you with your happiness in terms of how we engage and we are in a safe place for my feelings, I would always listen.🩷🩷

I want you to know I respect deeply you want respectful space and time - and this is part of doing that well. Your wishes are really important to me.

Your answer to this question lets me know if I am at risk emotionally, because of my feelings for you.🩷

Until I feel I am not at risk, I am likely to ask this question if you contact me, until I think I don't need to ask this anymore, when of course I won't ask.

I need a "yes" or "no" answer.  If I don't get a "yes" or "no" I will assume it's "no".

Answer "no" if you are: (a) dating, or (b) with someone, or (c) not interested in catching up, in person, maybe after a brief few texts to say hi, ready to promptly make a plan to catch up that day or the following day, I will make time for sure so anytime works.

Answer "yes" if you: (a) haven't been dating in the last few days, (b) are not with someone and (c) are interested in catching up in person and ready to make a plan to catch up that day or the following day, I will make time for sure so anytime works.🩷

If the answer is "yes" it should be good with me, I would love to see you.🩷 This would only not be the case if I feel vulnerable in the moment perhaps because I am going through stuff,  or maybe had a new partner, which is unlikely at this time.

"Yes" is telling me that my feelings are safe, in a time when you know in your heart that after we catch up, if I want to communicate in the days that follow, you will engage, answer the phone when I ring and it will be kind communication and of course I offer the same - obviously no one can be sure lol, but as long as you want that to be the case, that's great and all I ask.

Unless I get a 'yes', I will most likely, opt out of communicating further using very kind words, which you deserve:) I am sorry if this happens, it's just about feeling safe in the sense I won't be upset or worry I am invested emotionally in a place I am not wanted.

If I am persistently getting "no's" and you are trying to contact me when you know it's not safe for my feelings, I may just not reply. Understand in that moment, I am just being careful not to be upset and I appreciate you always in ways I feel deeply about, it's just about feeling good and of course, I wish things were different, this about my feelings for you and wanting to see you, in a way we both feel great. 🩷

This question ensures that you have all the time and space you need - and if you ever want to contact me in a place you aren't dating or seeing someone, when you are wanting to see me - if that day ever comes, when you contact me and I ask this question and you say "yes" - we can catch up, which I would love.🩷 If you say "no" and I have healed, I am sure it will be okay too:):)

Thanks this means a lot to me.

I care about you so much, I couldn't wish more that someday, the answer is "yes".🩷